I scared a woman today. Smiling scared her. It was dark and after dinner, and I was calmly walking an overpass above a busy street—reflecting on my exercise regimen—when a wealthy blonde appeared, maybe 40, and she decided to pause after her climb, to take in the city view. Bangkok has a special feel, so she approached the railing, took in the frenetic vista, then took a step back, and was startled half to death because behind her right foot was a beggar, a quiet dignified man kneeling in the shadows. He was completely still; so still he looked frozen, in front of him was a tin can for charity.
She did not offer alms, she looked down disgusted and stepped forward and onwards, quickly realizing that this was no longer London or New York; that really, her world was just a very dark bridge with her and an extremely poor man. And then as she hurried away she noticed me ghosting her with a wide smile. She knew I knew.
Sometimes I wonder about white women, don’t they know?
MGTOW is for men. And I am pure MGTOW: never married; never cohabit; no children. My journey is pure, and purity matters. Since my journey is not a reaction to trauma and abuse it’s not haunted by bad memories and feelings. My way of life, my path, is the result of pure logical thought. I can only sympathize with my MGTOW brothers who’ve been through the meat grinder; they learnt the hard way, Mr. Black:
“My Chronology leading to MGTOW and the Red Pill – UK story
I was married in my 20’s, my wife paid nothing I paid the mortgage for 8 years from my salary. She was having an affair with the old boyfriend. I left, she lied to the court about co-habitation with the old boyfriend now her partner. She got the house 100% I had to rent a room and left with just my car. I was parentally alienated from my son. I had to fight in court to keep my pension and my car, the police pension which I had before I married her and the car was from my money. I kept the pension and car but the costs were more than the car. I am still not sure if my son is mine, he took off with her.
I had my own house again, smaller but safe. A female partner moved in as she had no place to stay, she stopped working and failed to pay anything. She then tried to claim half my house and I had to fight a legal battle. Thankfully she lost as I had kept a voice recording of the moving in arrangement. She lost also due to me locking off all the rooms except the bathroom and kitchen (despite the police telling me I could not) and moving out. She made a false allegation and I was arrested and released no charge. No punishment for her and 11 hours incarceration for me on a falsity. When she finally left she wrecked the house stole the cooker and smashed all the fences. I reported it to police who took no action.
No live-in partners now but my then female partner made two false allegations against me and I was arrested both times. She probably was a vulnerable narcissist. She was never punished by police for this fraudulent complaint.
I am now RED PILL more than MGTOW and loving it and I have girlfriends for sex only. It is the only reasonable response. If they don’t like it they can walk. Not all women are like that and I love women but hate the way most of them have been programmed by society. Women financially disintegrate as they age because they are unable to generate wealth in the main (not all women but most) and unless they have fleeced a man at some point in life, then they are broke at 60. MGTOW is real reasonable and it works and is the best response to toxic feminism. Guys never get married.”
In addition to the excellent testimony of my MGTOW brother, I’d like to give some honest advice about MGTOW that isn’t colored by bad beginnings.
What’s it like to be a man without a family?
It’s quiet and simple. Every decision becomes a calculus concerning costs, benefits, advantages, pain and pleasure; and after you build up a stack of metals and liquid assets, the costs become less important and decisions can be taken calmly and after proper consultation. You’re an extremely mobile and flexible worker and your daily cost structure is a fraction of a married or divorced man’s. This is important because many men do unpleasant work because they need the additional income to support a spouse and children. For the most part, I only do work that I enjoy.
Does MGTOW lifestyle carry risks?
Yes. There are two principal risks that I’ve identified.
1) No limits. Most men have limits imposed upon them by the society: laws, taxes, power politics, etcetera. MGTOW men must impose limits upon themselves, and direct themselves. I found this very hard in my twenties because I was generally confused as to what the hell was actually going on and what society was all about, and the world. This confused state is probably because the only thing holding any society together is a bunch of lies, and those lies are pounded into your brain in its formative stages. So MGTOW in the beginning is tough and there are many pitfalls to avoid, your first girlfriend is the most dangerous because you have no prior experiences.
2) No social identity. MGTOW is not recognized as an acceptable philosophy by the authorities; and so it must be hidden and masked. You kind of ghost society, while interacting only on terms that benefit your purpose. After the Reset, this will become increasingly difficult to do.
What are the solutions to these risks?
Generally speaking, you should never advertise yourself, get a job that has a recognized positive social role: so avoid politics, crime, military, policing. Avoid jobs where single men maybe discriminated against and accept that many power positions are only for married men. You must understand that most men are miserable and you’re surrounded by them, they’ll take you down—avoid the assholes. The less interaction with miserable men the better. Gloating and bragging is foolish, stay focused on what you want to achieve within all timeframes. You must have a goal, or purpose, that’s independent of the natural impulse to breed. This doesn’t have to be intellectual, it could be an activity that you enjoy doing, like building or skiing.
Have a set of limits, here are mine that have worked out well:
No sex with anyone below the age of 20.
No romance with married, divorced or entangled women.
No romantic relationship with anyone above 25.
Go home at midnight.
Frequent and organized exercise, weight lifting is important.
Minimal to zero debt.
Spoil yourself with a rich and healthy diet. Wine, whiskey and gin are best. Avoid beer like the plague. Limit yourself to only the top quality cuisine.
After 20 years of MGTOW living, my entire adult life, I’ve had many pleasures and experiences and it’s been a rich happy varied life. That said, there is one thing that’ll kill a MGTOW more than anything else, and that’s loneliness. For whatever reason, experiences are only real if they’re shared. It’s critically important that you maintain and build a wide ranging network of cool friends. I often only work in and visit cities where a friend wants to hang out—money doesn’t matter overly much.
Can a woman go her own way?
Actually, I have female readers, and young ladies ask to hang out with me. Which is cool. Generally speaking, it’s possible for a woman to go WGTOW as long as she’s financially savvy, smart and has a MGTOW partner. In the future, I think MGTOW guys and WGTOW gals will sign their own partnership contracts and have kids outside of the state enforced marriage license scam. The current marriage scam supports lots of debt, and so it’ll be a while before behaviors change. But I do envisage a future where financially independent adults, of the opposite sex, organize contractual partnerships whereby they have joint custody of an artificially inseminated baby.
That said, some things will never change … every lifestyle carries a cost, with built-in risks—like a nighttime crossing of an unlit bridge.